I am one week into my new routine.
I am working on these goals: stronger willpower,
more family closeness, and more productivity.
Stronger willpower. I had some ridiculous
successes in this one! I went to bed early every night. I got up before 6 am. I
was sick on Friday and I still pushed myself to work. I was still sick this
morning and fully intended to sleep in, but then this little voice pushed me
awake, and we went to church. We have started attending a new (to us) church.
This is a huge thing for me. I have been so burned by religion in so many ways,
that to reach out to one and want to go, especially when sick, is enormous. I
have been meditating nightly.
Other goals to work on in this: eating better,
spending less money, and exercising more.
More family closeness. I feel like we had a
really good week. A lot of good and productive talks. The sermon today was on
the importance of being present. That spoke to me and I am trying to do less
multitasking and more single tasking. This week we plan to spend time with each
boy and help them come up with their own goal sheets and plans.
Goals to work
on: continue setting and enforcing boundaries with them, having game time, and
cooking together more.
More productivity: Sticker charts for the win! I
am embarrassed at how motivating my little charts have been. I have also been
working on forgiving myself when I don't achieve some arbitrary standard. I
have been remaining off of social media and news sites almost completely during
the week. I am using Rescue Time and am allowing myself to get competitive with
me.
Goals to work on: sticking with it now that the semester has begun,
getting up at 5:45. And the big one: carving out reading time. I have books I
want to read on productivity, parenting, and generally being a better person. I
also want to read for fun. I don’t seem to have time for anything but the
quickest reading right now. Although I do tend to sit on the couch quite a bit
from 6 am until about 7:30. Maybe I should bring a book with me. But I would
also like to make that a more mobile time. Hmmm….
My big burning question still remains: how do
people accomplish all the parts.
I know there are people that do. People who
are achieving adequate levels of exercise, work productivity, family time,
household organization, shopping, cooking, cleaning, and fun time. How does
that happen? I have been working like a dog to get my work productivity on tap,
but I still have some organizing to do in the house and garage. And the house
overall isn't as clean as I think it should be. And I want to cook more. And I
haven't really left the house socially hardly at all this week. These don't
feel like giant, lofty goals, and yet I can't fit them all into my week.
Next week I will tell you about my new color
coding system. I am pretty excited about it. But I will leave you with a recipe
that I made up on the way home from church. Luigi helped me make it and it was
delicious.
Egg Bake
Greased 9X13 pan. I am not 100% sure about the
cook temp and time. We did 25 minutes, then 10 minutes at a time until it was
done. Started at 350, then turned it up to 400. I would say start at 400 and
start checking about 25 minutes in. It is done when the eggs aren’t runny.
Lightly toast 3 English muffins. Put them down
as your first layer.
Pour 1 cup half and half over the muffins.
Sprinkle chopped spinach and sliced mushrooms over
the cream.
Layer thin sliced ham or other lunch meat of
choice, to cover spinach.
Crack 10 eggs over the ham, evenly distributed.
Sprinkle grated cheddar cheese on eggs.
Sprinkle fresh cilantro over cheese. I also
added a Mediterranean spice blend and some salt and pepper.
Bake until done. So easy and so good. I am going
to try to do it as a make-ahead next Saturday night.
Not the prettiest dish in the world, but we didn't mind
We were going to add potatoes, but realized they
would need to be cooked for longer. So Luigi sliced them thin and fried them on
the side.
I hope everyone has a splendid week!